My sister-in-law shared a valuable piece of wisdom over the weekend. We were at a family gathering, and one of my nephews jokingly said something critical to his mother. He intended it as harmless, of course. My sister-in-law, upon hearing the comment he made, said to him, “You know, I have a suggestion. Instead of saying something critical to your mother, find all the compliments that you can sincerely give to her.”
I have a tendency to be critical, and her advice resonated with me. What a wonderful way to practice changing negative energy into positive. And what a way to practice compassion instead of criticism. I took her words to heart, and wanted to share them with you.
I’ve been using this as a practice when I notice that I am thinking or speaking critical things. It softens me immediately, and opens my heart easily. Try it yourself and see how it feels for you!
Peace.
Leslie
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